Valent　Lee　　李中莹

 

生命只给你时间与空间。如何填满它是你自己的事。
Life provides you with time and space. It’s up to you to fill it.

快乐的秘密并不是拥有更多，而是渴求更少。
The secret of happiness is not having more, but wanting less.

态度的背后是你认为事情该怎么样。态度只是你的主观的外壳。
Underneath attitude are your beliefs, values and rules. Your attitude is only their shell.

没有任何信念在所有的情况里绝对有效。
No belief can be absolutely effective in all the situations.

从来没有一句话能说清楚它本身包含的意思。
The words of a sentence cannot depict all the meaning in that sentence.

“敢问路在何方？……路在脚下”
“If I may ask where the road is? ……The road is right beneath your feet.”

在这个世界上，除了自己的感觉外，没有什么是真的。
Nothing other than your own feelings is true in this world.

梅花的高傲，来自它选择在最冷的时间开花。
The plum flower is proud, because it chooses to blossom in the coldest moment.

大自然的法则是：每当你说事情 “必须这样”，它便给你一个例外。
Nature’s law: an exception always arise when one expects things to happen a certain way.

因为我们并不完美，所以我们没有资格要求世界完美。
Because we are not perfect, so we have no right in asking for a perfect world.

没有“必须”便没有弱点。没有弱点的人，别人是无法攻击的。
A person who does not say “I must” has no weakness. Nobody can attack a person who has no weakness.

事实不等于真相。
FACTS≠TRUTH ！

当你坚持把注意力和思想放在问题上，你将看不到身边众多的机会。
When you keep your eyes and mind on the problem, you will not see the many opportunities around you.

很多人宁愿生活在痛苦中，也不愿解决自己的问题。
Many people prefer living in pain than to have their problems solved.

 

“摆脱”的唯一办法是 “深入”。
The only way “Out” is “In ”.

恐惧使你不敢面对它；而不能面对它，正是你的恐惧的来源。
Your fear prevents you from facing it, and yet not facing it is the cause of your fear.

任何内心清楚的事，总可以用20个字说出来。若不可以，只是未曾透彻思考而已。
Anything that is very clear inside your mind, may be said within 20 words. If not, it is only because you have not thought it through thoroughly.

压力来自感觉自己的能力比事情所需要的小。
Pressure comes from feeling that one’s strength is less than what the task requires.

“困难”是以为得到的比需要付出的少。
Difficulty comes from thinking the gain is less than the cost.

“恐惧”是不愿付出以为需要付出的代价。
Fear is not willing to pay the presumed price.

愤怒给人力量去改变一个不能接受的情况。
Anger yields power to change a situation that is not acceptable.

悲哀让我们更为珍惜尚且拥有的东西，包括回忆。
Sadness makes us value more what we still possess, including what’s in our memory.

软弱的感觉，来自把注意力放在自己不能控制的东西。
The feeling of weakness comes from focusing on things that we cannot control.

唯一肯定可以与你度过一生的是你自己，因为除了你自己外，没有任何人是你能够控制的。
The only one you can be sure to go through your life together is yourself, because apart from yourself .you can control nobody.

我们行事的标准，从来都只凭自己脑里认为世界应该是这样，而不是真实的是怎样。
We always operate according to our map of the world inside our mind, and not from what the world really is.

智慧就是去接受。当你能够接受世界上的一切，你便有最大的智慧。
Wisdom is to accept.When you can accept everything that happens in the world, you will have supreme wisdom.

一个难以进入情绪的人，亦难以从情绪中摆脱出来。
One who has difficulty to get into an emotion, would be difficult to get out of one also.

每天我都学到新的东西，使我改变了一些昨天的信念。
Every day I learn something new that makes me change something I used to believe yesterday.

山不转水转。
When the mountain does not turn, the water turns.

你不能改变这个世界。但你总可以改变你对这个世界的看法。
The world does not change, but your perception of it can .

站在谷底的人，无论朝哪个方向走，都只会走得更高。
A person standing at the bottom of a valley, no matter which direction he chooses, he could only go higher.

你不尝试怎会知道？
How can you know if you don’t try?

每当我们对事情做出判断，我们便看不到真相。
Whenever we make judgments on a event, we would not be able to see the truth in it.

我可以接受打输的结果，但绝不能容许自己不去打。
I can live with losing the fight, but I cannot live with not fighting.

勇气不是没有恐惧。勇气是，纵然有恐惧，还能坚持下去。
Courage is not without fear. Courage is, in spite of fear, one can still move on .

迷惘使你学得更多，而清晰使你使用得更好。
Confusion makes you learn more, and clarity enables you to use better.

学习的第一步总是迷惘混乱，因为你是从已知走入未知的领域。
The first step of learning is always confusion ,because you have moved from the known to the unknown

用来衡量某件事应否做的标准只有一个；那是否使我在三赢的基础上更接近我的人生目标?
The sole criterion to determine whether one should do something or not:
Does it bring me closer to my goals in life, on the win-win-win basis?

没有方向的人是因为他们没有目标。
People have no direction because they have no destination.

光靠满腔热血，不会使革命成功，只能制造烈士。
Passion alone cannot win the revolution; Passion just makes martyrs.

事情从来都没有失败，除非你已经决定中止尝试。
There is no failure until one decides to stop trying.

无论你说你能够做到抑或不能做到，你都是对的，因为控制你自己的权力在你的手里。
Whether you say you can or you cannot, you are both right, because you have the control of yourself in your own hands .

我们不能要求世界完美；但是我们可以在不完美的世界里取得自己的一份成功快乐。
We cannot demand a perfect world; but we can have our success and happiness in this imperfect world .

过去已成历史，明天只是个谜，只有今天最实在，因为它是一份礼物。
The past is history, tomorrow a mystery. Today is a gift, this is why it is called the Present .

“虚伪”就是：为自己而做的事，贴上“为他人而做”的标签。
“Hypocrisy” is a “for myself” behavior labeled as “for the others ”.

尊重一个人就是接受他的信念，价值观和规条。
Respecting a person is accepting his beliefs, values and rules.

不要在导师身上找寻上帝。
Don’t look God in your teacher.

两个人相同之处使他们能够相处；两个人不同之处，却使他们能够成长。
Similarities between two persons enable them to get along；however, their differences enable them to grow .

两人在一起时唯一的意义是帮助对方成长；当这个意义中止时，也就是他们应该分开的时候了。
The only meaning for any two persons staying together is to help each other to grow. When this meaning ceases to exist，it is the time for them to part .

你说得多对没有用，对方是否听得明白更重要。
In communication, however right you are in what you say is irrelevant ,more important is whether the other person understands the message or not .

从表情及行为可以清楚知道对方内心是怎样一回事；他说的话只不过是混淆你而已。
expression_rs and behavior review the truth, words are there only to confuse you .

给别人空间，就是接受他们与你的不同处。当我们能够接受与自己不同的人，我们也就成长了。
Giving other people space is accepting their differences.
When we can accept people who are different from us ,we are growing .

“春风化雨，润物无声”
——这是爱的最高境界。
The highest form of expressing love is like the breeze and rain-they serve without saying .

父母的关爱，应该是提供空间让孩子成长，而不是妨碍孩子成长。
Parents’ caring should provide the space for children to grow up; and not to prevent children from growing .

不要选择一个只会在平静的海洋中航行的船长。
Don’t choose a captain who has sailed only calm water .

“最好”是终点。只要你准备走下去，应该是不断追求“更好”。
“The Best” is an end .As long as you intend to continue, you could always pursue “better ”.

战胜转变的唯一秘诀是：学得比转变带来得更多更快。
The only way to beat changes is: to learn more and faster than what the changes bring.

不要告诉我为什么做不到；告诉我如何做得到，因为那才是你存在的原因。
Don’t tell me why it cannot be done；tell me how it can be done ,because that is why you are here.

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